Knowing the kind of profound relief that Radical Forgiveness can provide, I only wish it were possible that the parents and families of those who were killed could experience it now. But it is far too early for that. Radical Forgiveness can only proceed when we have felt the pain fully and gone all the way through it without stuffing it or denying it. This is especially so with grief. I doubt that any one of those parents will be able to approach the notion that there might have been a divine purpose behind what happened for at least a couple of years, if not more.
Only when that point is reached would I suggest they read my book Expanding Into Love, A Handbook for Awakening to the Truth of Who You Are, Raising Your Vibration and Creating Enlightened Relationships. I would especially refer them to Chapter 26, Grieving Your Losses. If they become open to this metaphysical interpretation of death and dying, it will relieve their pain, help them transform the energy and find the peace they are looking for.
But we can help them right now by taking it on ourselves to dissolve much of the dense negativity that has engulfed them and by so doing make it easier for them to heal. We can each do this by dissolving, within ourselves, all that negative energy we are holding about this whole affair, including the gun debate. Our work is coming to the realization that the hand of God was in there somewhere and that there was a reason why this needed to happen. Even to the extent that those who died and those who suffer the pain of loss volunteered to go through this in order to teach the whole country something.
The tool I have created for this is the Radical Transformation Worksheet — Applying the Strategy of Radical Forgiveness to World Events. It does what all Radical Forgiveness inspired worksheets do; it takes you through the 5 Stages of Radical Forgiveness:
1) Telling the Story, 2) Feeling the Feelings, 3) Collapsing the Story, 4) Reframing the Story and 5) Integrating the New Story.
If you want to help to shift the energy, go to my new website, www.expandinginlove.com and download a Radical Transformation Worksheet. (Note: As you will see, this website is where all the readers of my new book will come to access all the videos, audios, songs and other cool stuff connected to specific places in the text. You will also see how you can get an inscribed and signed copy of the book.)
To help you fill one out, if you haven’t done one already, I have filled one out for myself. (It is included as an example in the one you download.) I needed to do it because, as you will see, I had quite a lot of toxic energy around this thing, as most people in this country did. Who could not be affected by such a thing? Just doing the worksheet has made it easier and I feel a lot lighter.
Try it for yourself and feel the difference and know, too, that by doing it you are making a difference. You have the power to change the world and the sooner you realize it the better.